This past week, my uncle passed away from cancer so I had the opportunity to experience a full-fledged Buddhist Korean funeral. When I got to the hospital, I had to pay my respects to his son and his mother and then we were ushered into this room where the dead body was (it was covered with a sheet). When the whole family was in that room, they began to clean the body and wrap it in this traditional Korean funeral garment. It was very ritualistic and probably took more than an hour. For example, they cut off some of his toe nails and finger nails, and while they were doing that, they said some ritualistic saying. Afterwards, they put those things in a small bag and put it on his body. They did the same thing for some of his hair too. [Read more…] about A Korean Funeral
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The Power of Shame in Asian Cultures
I have never heard so much about suicide until moving to Korea. Sure, there were the occasional suicide stories in the news back in Canada and in Hollywood, but to so frequently read the names of celebrities, political leaders, and high-profile individuals in the headlines in apposition with the deadly words, “suicide,” was unfathomable.
“South Korean Ex-President Kills Himself” is one of the major headlines in the news today. Even if one were to survey this past year’s news, one would frequently come across stories of celebrities committing suicide in Korea. Committing suicide in Korea is really not an occasional occurrence.
But why? Is it that the preciousness of life isn’t valued any more? Is it a decision of the whim? Why am I coming across so many stories of suicide in this shame-based-Confucianistic culture of Korea? [Read more…] about The Power of Shame in Asian Cultures
Green McDonald's and Missional Living
Reserved parking spaces for hybrid cars, tables and chairs made from recycled milk and detergent containers, and vegetative green roofs – these are a few of the 20 features that McDonald’s has conjured up to attract the eco-concious population (see Korea Times Article).
On top of that, today’s McDonald menu is vastly different from its menu 20 years ago.
Why are they changing? What’s motivating them? Is it working?
One word – culture.
It’s all about culture.
For example, 20 years ago, were large companies really concered about their carbon footprint? Of course not! And that’s why we never heard much about carbon footprints back then. It just wasn’t a concern to the wider culture. However, what about today? Don’t you find that it’s hard to come across many companies that aren’t “going green?”
So why does this issue matter?
Well, if Christians are to really be genuine and not hypocritical, then that means that sharing the good news of Christ is essential. The amazing thing is that the good news of Christ is timeless, whereas the method of sharing it isn’t.
And that’s exactly it. Culture changes! Therefore, the method of sharing the good news of Christ must change as well.
Yesterday, my wife and I finally found a place to live in Korea. After 3 days of searching, and many hours of mediocre places, we finally found a place that’s perfect for us. We have a large living room, so we can have people over to entertain them (since the apartments are so small in Korea, it’s very uncommon to have people over), and we even have a second bedroom, so that we can house visitors. And the location? It’s right in the center of the international community in Seoul.
As a pastor, it’s really easy to hide in the church. There is always an endless amount of work to do, and a countless number of Christians that need discipleship. As a result, there is always the danger that pastors will live in a “Christian bubble,” lose touch with the culture, and become hypocrites. In other words, the danger is that pastors will stop sharing the good news of Christ with those who don’t know it and desperately need it.
My prayer is that I would never become that kind of pastor. Perhaps that’s why God blessed us with such an amazing place in the center of the international community in Seoul? We’re definitely not going to be hard pressed to find people in our neighborhood who need the hope of Christ.
Our prayer (my wife and I) is that we can be like a shining city on a hill that cannot be hidden (Matthew 5). A city on a hill that is so bright, that it dispells the darkness surrounding it. (Isn’t it ironic how our apartment is actually on a hill?)
Sex Trafficking
“The CIA estimates that between 50 000 and 100 000 girls, boys and women are trafficked annually into the United States to be pimped out or sold for forced sex. Worldwide more than 1 million people are trafficked across international borders against their will.”
“We are not finding victims in the United States because we’re not looking for them.” – The U.S. State Department’s Advisor on Trafficking.
The movie Trade does an excellent job in opening one’s eyes to the horrors and reality of the modern day sex trafficking industry. In other words, if one were to parallel the movie Blood Diamond to the movie Trade, it would go like this: Trade is to the sex trafficking industry, as Blood Diamond is to the diamond industry.
If this is such a serious problem, why are so many people unaware of it?
When people hear about sex trafficking, most people are disgusted at the thought of buying another human being for sex. After all, how can we treat other human beings as objects? This conjures up thoughts of slavery and dehumanization.
However, when you speak to pimps or people actively trading other human beings for sex, you will never hear them say that this was their dream job growing up. In the same way, when you speak with rapists or pedophiles, they will always admit that they never thought they would get this far. I’m sure you can agree with me when I say that there are no children who dream about growing up, raping others, and having sex with children.
Then how do people get to this point in their life?
“…each of you is tempted when you are dragged away by your own evil desire and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full–grown, gives birth to death.” (James 1:14-15)
In other words, it’s a progression.
When you ask pedophiles, rapists, and pimps how they got to that point in their life, they will all say the same thing – it started with viewing others as objects. In other words, when one views pornography, one isn’t looking at a human being anymore, one is looking, lusting, and fantasizing over an object.
You don’t believe me? Well, here’s a question to all of you who have looked at pornography before: When you were looking at pornography, did you ever stop to think about that person’s life story? Does that person have parents? Brothers? Sisters? Children? A spouse? Where does that person live? Is that person doing it voluntarily or are they also forced and chained into the sex industry? What if that person was your daughter? Would you still look at those images? The fact is, no one ever thinks about those questions when they look at pornography because those who view pornography have begun to see people as objects.
However, there comes a point when pornography isn’t enough. Therefore, those individuals go to strip clubs. The same thing happens in strip clubs. Even though one is viewing real human beings, one still doesn’t ask those questions or consider that person to be a human being. As a result, one will not treat the stripper as a human being, but only as an object that can be bought for one’s own entertainment. It’s dehumanization.
After that, strip clubs won’t be enough either. Therefore, those individuals will begin to buy prostitutes. And the same thing will happen again. After that, prostitutes won’t be enough either, etc. The cycle just keeps on spiraling down and down. You get the point, right? It’s a progression.
The fact is, sex trafficking exists because there’s a demand. Prostitutes exist because there’s a demand. Strip clubs exist because there’s a demand. Pornography exists because there’s a demand.
Are you fueling that demand?
If you are, you are fueling sex trafficking.
exploiting the poor?
Is this exploitation of the poor? A saavy marketing campaign? A political statement? Or just plain cruel?
In the August 2008 issue of Vogue India, there is a controversial 16 page advertising campaign that uses the countries poor to sell products meant for the countries rich.
In the image below, you see a picture of a poor husband and wife marketing a $200 Burberry umbrella and an Etro handbag.
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